1. I don't really use any, in the shower everything keeps moist.
2. Hot water bottles come with everything you need. $15
3. Get comfortable, relax and Practice, lol

find a girlfriend.

1. Get some astroglide, it's at practically any pharmacy or wal-mart. The thicker gel kind is good.
2. Hot water bottle enema like they said above, if you can't find that then see if you can use a shower hose. Fill up slowly, release, repeat until clean.
3. Even two fingers is enough to start with, take your time and relax, and you can slowly pull them apart and widen your hole. Being patient is really important, you can't rush this. I know it's kind of hard to wait sitting there with your fingers deep up your ass waiting for your hole to get used to it, but it's worth it and eventually you'll be able to take 4-5 fingers and larger objects. Make a conscious effort to relax and stretch yourself out slowly.

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The shower nozzles always seemed risky to me. The flood control on them look crappy and the last thing I'd want to do is blow a hole in my ass and die

I use a shower attachment designed for the job and it's great. The aperture is small enough that even on full mains pressure (which obviously I don't use it at) I'd at most get a rush with plenty of time to remove it should some flow regulation issue arise.

Started about eight months ago and am now up to 3", it takes time and you only slow yourself down by rushing and hurting yourself, even a little can put things on hold.

I also use "Wets Stuff Gold" lube for toys and J-Lube if it's skin on skin.